It is getting a bit tiresome hearing customers at the department store where I work saying “Thank you for being here.” I know it comes from a good place and I appreciate it. I’m not going to fight anybody who says it. I usually say “You’re welcome” and the conversation moves on. Still, it feels a bit uncomfortable at first, and wearing over time. During this pandemic those retail workers who have to still work have become some sort of heroes, often getting grouped with health care workers “on the front lines.” (Though I hope that we aren’t getting anywhere near the praise that health care workers are getting.)
While I’m not above being worshiped as a hero, I can’t honestly accept it while I’m stocking baby wipes on a shelf. Okay, nobody’s worshiping me exactly, I only wrote that for a humorous effect. The point is that I’m not doing anything special. I’m simply showing up for my job because I work for one of the businesses that didn’t close. Honestly, I wish we did. There should have been a better infrastructure in place for something like this so businesses didn’t have to stay open.
I can’t even join those of my co-workers who are self-isolating because I don’t have a valid reason. I don’t have asthma and I don’t smoke. I’m not old. As far as I know, I don’t have a mental health condition that prevents me from dealing with the stress of the work—and work is stressful right now while we only have a skeleton crew running the place.
Despite any noble or philosophical reasons that I could come up with for not thanking me for showing up for work, the flat-out truth is that it got old real fast. It’s just starting to get annoying. Again, I know it comes from a good place (though I fear for some people “Thank you for being here” is going to become as automatic and therefore meaningless as “Stay safe” is becoming). If somebody honestly says it I’m going to reply as graciously as I can. But don’t be surprised if I respond swiftly as well.